So as many of you know, I am a full-time working mom. I have two little girls ages 5 and 2 and for most of my mom-years I have been dealing with daycare and not the public school system. When my 5 year old entered kindergarten for the first time this fall, I was excited. I was thrilled to have her in an educational environment where her brain would be challenged more so than a daycare ever could. I remember kindergarten. I loved it. I remember Mrs. Horvat, my teacher, she rocked. I soaked up everything that I was taught.
So it is natural for me to have the same expectations for my daughter even though I know we are two separate people. Starting kindergarten for my daughter was a very stressful time. She is a timid and anxiety ridden child, unsure about anything “new” in her life. Routine is her best friend, as it is for most kids.
When she entered school, met her teacher and began her first year, she did well. She did way better than Vans and I had expected. She was learning, making friends and becoming more independent. I had assumed our challenge would be her making friends, speaking up when she wanted or needed something and just overall acclimating to being with 25 other new kids she has never met. Never in my wildest dreams would I envision the struggles I’d face with food.
As I have said before, my daughter is a picky eater who loves sugar. I struggle at home to get her to make the right choices when it comes to consuming healthier food. Apparently I was naive to think that my daughter’s school would be on my side by encouraging these healthy choices.
You may remember this battle that I had with the PTA President back in October. Well trouble strikes again, this time in form of asking parents to submit General Mill’s Box Tops.
A few weeks ago, my daughter came home on a Friday with her homework folder and in the folder was a flyer from the school reminding parents to collect and submit Box Tops. I read the flyer, was immediately annoyed and tweeted this photo:
I understand the point of box tops (from the school’s side): each Box Top collected is equal to 10 cents, you bring in 10 box tops and you’ll have a dollar, a dollar from each kid … you get the point. Money! It always comes back to money. While I admit you can collect Box Tops on items like Ziploc baggies (although we try and use reusable in our house), most of the Box Tops come from General Mills sugar laden chemical filled cereals.
While it may appear that the school is “winning” by earning money, the real winner is General Mills. Not only do they get parents to buy their products thinking that they are going to be supporting their child’s school, the company essentially develops life long customers because the sugar in their product is addicting.
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I could go on and on about the Box Tops. My problem however was rewarding kids who clearly ate sugar to “win” with more sugar! Why does the prize have to be a donut party? Why couldn’t they provide the winning classes with jump ropes? You can find a jump rope for a dollar at most dollar-stores … why not promote exercise instead of more sugar?
In my obvious displeasure I tweeted the above photo to a lot of the people I look up to nutritionally on Twitter. One of whom is Registered Dietician Andy Bellatti. Andy not only retweeted my photo, but he also commented on it. He also contacted me privately asking if he could use my photo (a slightly altered one) as well as my name and issue with the school, in his next article. He has been wanting to write an article about Box Tops for some time for the website www.civileats.com.
I said sure, no problem. I didn’t want the school mentioned by name but he could use my name, my photo and my town (we have many elementary schools here). I was prepared for Civil Eats, I was not prepared for The Huffington Post. Last week sometime I was surfing twitter (I surf more than I tweet) and I came across a post by Andy linking to his article in the Huffington Post – you can see that article here. You can see it on Civil Eats here.
Wow. I know I only have a small mention in a sentence or two but since that initial tweet my following on Twitter has significantly increased. The way in which he wrote his article was also great. He did his research. He looked at the numbers. He got other well known experts to comment.
I just wanted to raise awareness in my daughter’s school. Whether anything will change because of this article, is unsure but it will open some eyes. It has definitely started a fire within me to try and create some change in my daughter’s school. I am battling her eating habits at home, I don’t need the school fighting against my efforts when they should be on my side. They should be on the side of the children and their health, not General Mills.
Happy Trails!
~Trailmomma
Excellent!! Write to Michelle Obama I think that maybe she might get involved since this is
right up her alley!!
Thanks Debbie. I “tweeted” her so fingers crossed. 🙂 I need others to share on Facebook to it reaches her.
I have so many thoughts to post, but no time. Rick and I just had this conversation about Box Tops, ironically. And while my perspective/motivation is aligned with yours, the first thing I think when I see ‘donut party’ is first: great, there will be peanuts in those and second: why are all rewards and celebrations around food, junk food? There is a balance in life and a few dozen donuts are cheap (probably cheaper than 25 x $1 jump ropes), but there are ao many other ideas! Pam – I would challenge you to see how you can help the school come up with non-food school party & celebration ideas. Perhaps volunteer to put on a ‘trail running’ event for the winning class?
Thanks Becky. I agree there is a balance and while I of course give my kid sugar I don’t see why the school has to as well. The Peanut allergy is a terrific argument, one that would probably get me in the door to make my voice more so than just claiming ‘no sugar’ … I have to do further research of the PTA and school. I am educating myself a little more in the meantime so I don’t appear as just a mom going sugar crazy. 🙂
Ah, I would have said the same: Write to Michelle Obama!!!
Thanks Ursula! I have tweeted Mrs. O … I just need more people to share my Facebook posts about these kinds of topics so that word reaches farther and farther.
I have a friend who is a 1st grade teacher–she says all kids eat lousy–she sees EVERY
apple uneaten and EVERY vegetable uneaten in the cafeteria. Not uncommon.
Kids do grow out of this sooner or later. You have lots of company. Linda K
Michelle Obama would find your experience interesting.
EXACTLY Linda, parents fight these battles daily with their kids to make wise choices. What parents don’t need is the school fighting them or sabotaging their efforts as well. Sure, the apples and carrots don’t get eaten but that does not mean they should be rewarded with a donut by their teacher.
As with all things connected to a bottom line, it seems profit before people is the underlying theme.
Like putting fast food restaurants in hospitals, a lesson about health is being missed: sure, these choices are in their lives every day and likely will be more and more as they grow up but if they’ve learned from the very young, impressionable age of five that junk food is fine as long as it’s a reward there is a very likely chance that these kids will grow up just accepting that junk food is part of a normal diet and further still, eat them more regularly as a meal than anything else.
We all give our kids a treat every once in a while, but hopefully it’s in balance with a nutrient-rich diet. If kids aren’t eating well at school (and geez, some of the school cafeteria lunches out there make me cringe) and then are hitting a donut party as part of their day – where are the brain-building nutrients that encourage learning, growth and activity? And don’t even get me started on the GMOs that lurk not only in the cereals purchased to win the contest but likely in the ingredients for the donuts at the party – again, profit before people.
Oh, and I hate to say it, but you’re totally going to be judged as the mom who is anti-sugar (and they don’t even know that you’re vegan and gluten-free yet) ! 😛
Good luck! You know I’m in your corner every step of the way.
You go Pam. Follow your beliefs. Good nutrition for kids is important so that they can continue healthy eating in adult-hood. It has to start somewhere. Huff Post article very informative as well. Nice to see you acknowledged there.